MEET LUKE

Infidelity Recovery Coach

I’m Luke Shillings, a relationship coach with a unique focus on infidelity recovery.

I’ve walked the difficult path many of you may be facing, either as someone who’s struggled with fidelity or as a partner seeking to make sense of it all. My own journey has taught me that the pain, guilt, and confusion that come with betrayal don’t have to define who we are. We can, if we choose, use these challenges as powerful catalysts for growth and change.

In my work, I connect with individuals on both sides of infidelity, those who are grappling with the consequences of choices made and those seeking to understand their role in the story. I approach this from a place of compassion and curiosity rather than judgment. We’re all human, and in that, there’s room for mistakes, self-reflection, and healing.

Through my own experiences and dedicated work, I’ve come to understand that infidelity isn’t as black-and-white as society might make it seem. The “why” behind our choices matters deeply, and my role is to help you unpack that “why” so that you can rebuild from a place of honesty and intention.

Whether you’re a partner trying to navigate the aftermath or someone looking to understand your choices, I’m here to guide you in finding clarity and confidence in your next steps. It’s about uncovering the truth of who you are and who you want to become, no matter how complex the journey may be.